Tuesday, November 27, 2012

TIADA MUSIBAH DALAM ISLAM (NO HARM FROM GOD)

It’s November and I have yet to start writing the next chapter of my novel ‘Jerejak’. Sigh.. I fear I’m never gonna finish that story (hope that's okay with many of you).

I would like to write about something else first, something which I’ve been wanting to share with all of you who have been kind enough to read my ramblings here from time to time.

A few months ago I was planning to write an article ‘tiada musibah dalam Islam’ after visiting a staff of mine who had just lost his son to a fatal accident. I barely know the kid but he did came to my daughter’s birthday one time. I remember him as a good looking and cheerful boy and very polite.

Then Allah called him back home to Jannah. From the outset everything must have look cruel and gruesome for fate to destine an eight year old boy being ran over by a Toyota Prado. I didn’t even dare to take a look on the corpse but the investigating officer from the Traffic Department I talk to had told me that the boy died instantly. So hopefully the boy didn’t feel a thing of what was coming to him. Hopefully for him it was more like a time warp experience. One second he was crossing the road and the next second he was standing in heaven wondering what the hell just happened.

That’s not the saddest part for me though (I am blessed with the luck to have learnt how the universe work so I am one of a few lucky people who now believes that there is no ‘musibah’ in Islam). The saddest partI was to see how the mother reacted during the funeral. She was wailing - fainting - wailing - fainting over and over again. When the men were trying to lift the coffin up to the burial site, she jumped and cling to it in her attempt to prevent them from taking her son away. Several family members have to wrestle her down before the body can be taken away.

A mother’s love for her child (especially one still young) is so strong, it’s possible it might even surpassed the love by a loving dad to his child by a hundred folds. Except for Prophet Muhammad, I don’t think any man can correctly say to a woman “I know how much you love your child”.

That being said, I was wise enough not to try to console her grief. I let my wife and the rest of the ladies to do that. The ladies in the house were all crying anyway so I figure let them all try to stop each others from crying instead.

On our drive back home my wife told me the usual story I heard. The grieving mother was blaming God for taking his son away. Luckily the elders immediately consoled her and told her to accept fate.

“So, what did all the makcik-makcik (aunties) said to her” I asked.

“The usual” Said my wife, shrugging her shoulder.

The usual here means the things we have heard before. For example words like “Allah lebih sayangkan dia” or “Dia sekarang di tempat lebih baik” or “Semuanya takdir” or “Nanti kamu akan berjumpa juga dengan dia kembali”.

Of course these kind words are all ABSOLUTELY TRUE. However such words has been repeated so much time in television dramas that it almost become a cliche. Everyone heard it but does anyone really understand what it means?

Kindly allow me to give my humble interpretation on how the universe work as perceived by the Watchers Group and maybe these words can bring more sense to all of us.

A few years back there was a study carried out on a statistics provided by the United States Census Bureau which came with a surprising result. It turned out that by average on all major accidents, many plane crashes/train wrecks have 30% less than the usual person capacity on board. Similarly, I remember a few weeks after 9/11 reading that on an average work day there should have been more people in the WTC than there was.

The suggestion that fate had somehow spared a lot of people from being killed in a fatal accidents is still being debated in the internet. The religious one are saying that these lucky one were saved by guardian angels. The paranormal believers theorized that human’s brain somehow are able to produce an extra perception sensory which had warned and saved them. The skeptics of course are saying that it was all just plain coincidence.

So how does the universe work anyway?

If you have ever watched the Discovery Channel series “Air Crash Investigation” then you would know that it is a FACT that in every fatal crashes involving commercial airliners there were sufficiently rare and freakish events that the explanations of almost all of them tend to involve:-

(a) strings of very unusual circumstances
(b) unfortunate coincidences, and
(c) improbable failures.

These strings of events which led to the crash itself is so mind bogglingly intertwined to each other at specific moments that it seems mathematically impossible for such coincidence to be mimicked by supercomputer.

Still unable to understand what the hell I’m talking about?

Please watch the a video clip from the movie “Final Destination” below in order to understand what was meant as (a), (b), and (c) above.



Now, you might say that the movie scene above is just a result of the scriptwriter's pigment of imagination. That's may well be the case. However, if any of you have ever had the opportunity to show the movie to the experts who had investigated major accidents such as plane crash or train wreck, they will tell you that the movie had perfectly captured the idea on how major accidents happened.

Alternatively, you can also subscribed to the Discovery Channel / National Geographic channel and tune in to series like “Air Crash Investigation” and “Seconds From Disaster”. In technical terms, what shown in the movie clip above is known as error chain,  which is a term referring to the concept that many contributing factors typically lead to an accident, rather than one single event. The Tenerife Disaster, the worst accident in aviation history, is a prime example of an accident in which a chain of events and errors can be identified leading up to the crash.Pilot error, communications problems, fog, and airfield congestion (due to a bomb threat at another airport) all contributed to this catastrophe.

Similarly, such freakish chain of events also occurred at other major disasters such as Kaprun Ski Resort Inferno in 2000, the Eschede train disaster that killed 101 people in 1998, a Big Blue crane collapse at Miller Park in 1998,  the 1995 Sampoong Department Store collapse in Korea and the 1987’s famous King's Cross fire in Britain.

Believe me when I said, things that happened in that movie - indeed happened in real life. It goes to show that a force beyond comprehension is pulling the string to make sure you die when your numbers are up.

However, as suggested earlier, study also shows that by freakish coincidence people are being saved from harm everyday. A classic example of such freakish luck is that famous Serbian stewardess Vesna Vulović who currently holds the world record for surviving the highest fall without a parachute (10,160 metres or an equivalent of 26 Empire State Buildings.).

In 1972 Vesna was a stewardess for JAT Flight 367 when the airplane exploded shortly after overflying en route from Stockholm to Belgrade. As a child she was ‘unfortunate’ to be diagnose with low blood pressure and thought that she would never ever be a stewardess. In the end her good fortune in surviving the accident is contributed to her low blood pressure, which caused her to pass out quickly and prevented her heart from bursting. Then there was a serving cart pinned painfully against her spine which coincidentally acted as a safety belt. There were also other ‘coincidences’ that came to play. A German man by the name Bruno Henke stumbled the crash site and spotted her legs sticking out.  Coincidentally he also happens to be a medic in the second world war.

Other stories of ‘misfortune’ which turned out to be the other way around is the story of Cara-Lyn Lappen whom detained in Somalia while trying to board a plane and missed her connection on Pan Am flight 103. Then there’s Jaswant Basuta, another passenger of Pan Am 103 who arrived at the boarding gate too late and The R&B singing group The Four Tops who missed the flight due to overslept. They were probably cursing God on top of their lungs when they missed that flight - that was of course before they learn that Pan Am 103 had exploded mid-air and later became known as the Lockerbie bombing.

Didn’t you noticed that as mankind becoming more corrupt, major accidents and deadly natural disasters became more frequent?

When Titanic sank in 1912 the news was on the front page of the news for months ahead because a death of 1502 people in a single event was almost unheard of at era. By comparison, when the ferry MV Dona Paz sank in the Philippine in 1987 killing 4,375 people, many people still didn’t know about the disaster until today. In fact the only 21st  century modern disaster what managed to compete with the Titanic coverage was the Acheh Tsunami 2004 (226,000 dead) and the Haitian Earthquake  with 222,570 fatalities.

In the past, mass fatalities usually occurred only during war. Yes there were accidents and natural disaster but not as frequent as today. That’s why when major accidents like the Titanic occurred people were understandably shocked.

If my group’s profiling is correct, we predict that as the day of Dajjal emergence becoming near, the mortality rate of children all over the world under the age of 9 will will decrease significantly. More young children will die quickly either because of disease, war, or freak accident. The death will come quick for these innocent children because even though what was happening to them may seemed cruel to the naked eyes, in truth what was happening was a ‘rescue mission’ in progress.

As the world become a dangerous and sorrowful place to live on, the Almighty will call back these children and put them in a place impossible to be reached by Dajjal.

I know.. I know.. Some of you might might wanted to argue with me at this point.. Hold your horses will ya? Please let me explain further as this is a complicated theory to explain.

Some of you might argue that the world has always been a dangerous place for children. In the past there were wars waged between nations and continent, not to mention the lack of medical care in the past which led to the deaths of many children due to diseases which can easily be cured today.

I agree, the revolution of modern technology and the discovery of many new drugs does make it easier and safer to rise a children today. In the past a children might die of drowning in the kampung river but nowadays we can take our children to Sunway Lagoon Waterpark and they can go tubing all day long in a very safe environment.

However, losing a life is not the most ‘unfortunate’ things that can happen to a person, losing his/her ‘faith’ (akidah) is.

Let’s go to the basic question now. What is the worst thing that can happen to us?

TO DIE?

Ha ha ha.. Nope. Provided that death came to you very swiftly (which would explain why death penalty in Islam is carried out via quick beheading), you actually won’t even feel a thing. When I was 15 years old I was hit by van while I was crossing a street and I still remember everything. I was stepping out from my school bus at 7.00 pm (it was during a school tour) and I can remember seeing two bright light and that was it. There were no pain. My memory only resumed the next day when I woke up on hospital bed with my teacher by my bedside, his face was stricken with horror at the thought that my parent was going to kill him once they arrived. The pain only came later on when the recovery process began.

So I believe to die is not the worst thing that can happen to a person. Provided that you performed enough good deeds on planet earth, then the experience of instant death is actually more like  being beamed from the Star Trek USS Enterprise to the surface of alien planet. A second ago you were there and now you are here. It’s as simple as that.

I believe the SECOND worst thing than can happen to us is actually to end up in Hell. Seriously, I wouldn’t mind being ‘beamed’ to heaven but I do mind leaving planet earth if the next place to go is a place full of brims and fire.

That being said, we can now understand the reason ‘why bad people always seems to live longer than good people’. It quite straightforward when you think about it, God is simply being merciful by giving them more time to perform good deeds so that they too can increase their chances of going to heaven.

Even when it comes to bad people, going to hell is not the worst thing that could happen to them. Bad Muslims people who did not abandon their faith until the day they die will eventually be released after spending several decades burning in Hell. There are many hadith to confirmed this such as one below:-

I know the last person who will come out of Hell and the last one to enter the Paradise. A man comes out crawling and Allah (subhanahu wa ta`ala) says: Go, enter the Paradise. Then he approaches it and it appears to him as if filled, then he returns back and says: O Allah, I found it full. Then Allah says: Go, enter the Paradise. He approaches it and it appears to him as if filled. He then returns back and says: O Allah, I found it to be full. Allah says to him: Go, enter Paradise, you have what is equal to the whole world and ten folds (or, you have what is equal to ten times this world). He then says: “O Allah, are you mocking me (or laughing at me) while You are the King?” Ibn Mas`ood said: I saw the Prophet, sallallahu `alaihi wa sallam laugh till his molar teeth were seen. Abdullah stated that the Prophet sallallahu `alaihi wa sallam said: “That is the lowest rank of those in the Paradise.” [Al Bukhari and Muslim]

Abu Hurairah Ra. meriwayatkan, Rasulullah Saw. bersabda: “Setiap ummatku pasti akan masuk surga, kecuali yang tidak mau. Shahabat bertanya, Ya Rasulallah, siapa yang tidak mau? Beliau menjawab, Mereka yang mentaatiku akan masuk surga dan yang menetangku maka dia telah enggan masuk surga.” (HR. Bukhari).

Therefore it’s clear that going to hell is technically not the worst thing that could happen to a person, instead the WORST MISFORTUNE that could ever befall a person is to stay in Hell FOREVER.

Ironically in Islam the worst crime a Muslim can commit in his/her lifetime is not theft, vice, or even murder. Instead the worst criminals are Muslims who abandon the all-Mighty Allah. These refers to the apostates, the unbelievers (Al-Kafiruun as mentioned in 109) who worship other beings other than Allah and the hypocrites (Al-Munafiqun as mentioned in verse 63) who pretend to worship Allah but in actuality averted people from the way of Allah. These are the people who will never ever escape Hell.

That being said, Muslims parents nowadays ought to understand why the 21st century is the most dangerous century for our children. The idea of Liberalism and Pluralism that is being widely propagated by the Al-Kafiruun and the Al-Munafiquun are far more dangerous than boarding a crippled plane with its tail already on fire.

Throughout history, the Al-Kafiruun had made so many attempts to deviate the Muslims from the path of Allah. When the Christians waged their crusade against the Arab in the 11th, 12th and 13th century, it was basically a genocide campaign to wipe out the Muslims occupation so that the later generation of Arab peninsular can be converted into Christianity. This works in the Iberian Peninsula but completely failed in the rest of the Islamic Kingdoms. Similarly the Portuguese had tried the same with Malacca and shared similar outcome.

The failure of the Al-Kafiruun  to deviate the the Muslims from their religion is mainly because in the past it was very easy to identify Kafir Harbi amongst the unbelievers. The Christian soldier can easily be identified with a huge red cross sewn on their shirt and are usually busy killing Muslims who refused to become apostate. Similarly, the communists in the 40’s and the 50’s were so verbal and brutal that Muslims has no difficulties to recognize them as enemy of faith. In order to protect the faith of the young, parents can either join the jihad to eliminate the enemy or simply make sure their children are  put far from reach of these unbelievers.

Today it’s a different story because the Al-Kafiruun are now joined by the Al-Munafiquun who work together to seduce younger generation to become one of them. To make matter worse, some of these Munafiquun did not even realized they had become a Munafiq who is assisting the Kafir Harb to deceit their own children. For example in our country we have a politician Muslim father and daughter who are openly endorsing the idea of LBGT and pluralism. Few weeks ago the daughter even issued a statement that a young Muslim should be given the freedom to deviate from the path of Allah at the age of 18.

Hmmm.. If they both become leaders of this country I’m sure they would contributed the the spike of apostasy amongst Malays Muslims and that means that both of them (and probably their supporters) will have no chance of crawling out from Hell.

People said that the biggest pain for parents is to bury their own child.

Errr.. not exactly. That sounded true but only because the sentence had been repeatedly popularized by the mainstream media. In about a year ago I had spoken to a mother who had just lost her 28 years old daughter to breast cancer and she was actually smiling when she kissed her daughter’s forehead for the last time. It was only a week later when she came to see me in my office (she needed an advice on how to deal with her daughter’s KWSP) that she broke down to tears as she recalled the pain and sufferings her daughter have to endure months before she dies.

Believe me, it is much much much much worse to watch your dying child suffers pain for a prolonged period of time. Ask any mother who is now sitting next to their child in hospital ward and you’ll find out that almost all of them are willing to have their children’s pain and sickness transferred to them if there’s a possible way to do it. Fortunately for us Muslims we have the Al-Mighty Allah to guide us on what to pray and what to do. Like that lady who met me in office, she said she had no choice but pray to Allah five times a day for Him to spare her daughter from the misery. After a month of praying her daughter finally told her the pain had mysteriously disappeared and a month later she passed away.

Unlike Muslims, the western secular mothers sometimes resorted to wrong measures such as that Canadian lady Kay Gilderdale who had to watch her daughters suffered chronic fatigue syndrome for 17 years.  On 3 December 2008  her daughter summoned her mother by tapping on the intercom she used for that purpose . She then told her mother Kay that she could no longer tolerate the pain. The mother eventually fetched two syringes to her daughter who administered herself with air to cause a fatal embolism. Similarly in India, an old woman by the name of Lakshmamma  has filed a petition in a local court in Chittoor, asking for permission for a mercy killing of his brain damaged son because she fear what will happen to her son after she dies ( the father had passed away ) .

Yes,  it is much much worse to watch your child suffers..

Therefore you should now imagine your child in one of the following situation and choose your answer carefully:-

(a) Imagine this happening to your son.

THE FUTURE: Your son is screaming in pain while he walks buck naked in the fire amongst poisonous snakes who bite him all over his body. His face is black and his penis is rotten with all sort of nasty gooey things flows from between his legs. From time to time fire caught his penis and he began to roll on the floor in pain as the fire razed his private parts inside out. He screamed and crying calling for her mother all in vain. All this will happen to him for another 10 years in Hell.

THE REASON: After PRU13 liberalism and the rights for free sexual orientation (including Lesbian, Bisexuals, Gay, and Transgender) are promoted in Malaysia by a new Government. Despite your best efforts to shield your son from the so called new ‘era’, He grow up as a handsome playboy who prefers to have sex  out of wedlock with God knows how many girls.

(b) Imagine this happening to your daughter.

THE FUTURE: You daughter ended up at the bottom of hell being razed alive by the blackest of fire that had burnt for millions of years. Each time the fire touches her, her skin melt and all the fluid in her body are heated as hot as magma until the fluids flow out from all orifices in her body. There were nine giant snakes chasing her. One will bite her head while the other will bite her breasts, hands, torso, legs and private part and these snakes will yanked it in opposites direction until she was torn apart all bloody and gory. In between becoming a dragon’s meal, she was also being beaten alive with a hammer causing her skull to crush, bones protruding out and her eyes popped out from socket. She too will scream calling your name in vain. The worst thing about her suffering is that unlike her playboy brother, your daughter will end up like this FOREVER.. I repeat.. FOR ETERNITY.

THE REASON: After PRU13 pluralism in religion are promoted in Malaysia by a new Government. As a result, there is no longer compulsion in religion even to Malays. Despite your best efforts to shield her against these new development, your daughter came to you one day and told you that she had fallen in love with a loving Christian man who wanted to make her his wife once she converted to Christianity. You pleaded and cried to stop her from leaving Islam yet she instead leaves you for her man.

(c) Imagine this happening to you.

THE FUTURE: You are a father and you are dead since a week ago. A chain of event after the fall of former government led to a civil unrest which is still ongoing in your country. This led to famine and as a result your head was hacked splitted opened by a guy on a street who tried to rob from you a bag of rice. You never made it home to your hunger stricken family who’s waiting for you. Now you are back as a wandering soul searching for your family to say goodbye for one last time. When you discovered them you found out that your six years old son are being slapped and beaten for begging for food from strangers and your wife are crying and pleading to the aid workers for a can of food. You finally knew why you were send back to earth a week after your death, it’s because your 4 years old daughter is dying of malnutrition and was lying on the floor sucking marbles. She saw you and she smiled and you take her back where home really is.. yet you still worry about your son and your wife left behind.

THE REASON: because of Anwar Ibrahim.


Dear fellow parents,

Taking into consideration that we are all now living in the era bordering the coming of major world upheaval and ‘Dajjal’, than the situation above is very much plausible for each any every one of us. In fact, situation (a) already happens in this country whereas situation (b) is now happening in Indonesia. I guess there is no need to tell you that situation (c) is now happening in the middle eastern countries torn by war.

I think I speak from common sense when I say that any parent, if presented with an opportunity to stop such things from happening, will do absolutely everything and anything to save their family. Of course all of them wanted their family to survive but what if there is only one option? What if God Himself knows that in order to save our beloveds from the eternal damnation of Hell or the misery of this world then He must take them back ‘home’?

Will you let Him 'rescue' your beloveds?

God’s love is the basis of the Watcher’s Group theory that many innocent children will be ‘taken’ away before the coming of what is known by Muslims as ‘The Biggest Lie’ (Fitnah Terbesar). Muslims all over the world has been warned about the dangers that shall come during this period of which some of our young generation will be tempted by the idea of liberalism to subscribe to free sex and LBGT. Then there's war and anarchy being waged around world tempting others to perform murders and violence. As moral decay and human misery reaches its peak, Dajjal will come pretending as 'savior' of humanity and claimed himself as God. As our children loses hope then they will embrace Dajjal, and by doing so they will all commit the biggest sin of all which will forfeit their rights to ever escape hell - apostasy.

So I ask you again, Will you let God 'rescue' your children from the lie of Dajjal?

Such a way the universe works has been cryptically hinted in Al-Quran (Al Kahfi 18:65). Remember the story of the immortal Khidir? The guy referred in by Allah as “servants to whom we had given mercy from us and had taught him from Us a certain knowledge”? Khidir who had informed Moses isternly that their knowledge is of different nature and that Moses would not have understand him because Moses’s knowledge  is not complete?

During their journey together Khidir had sunk a ship that was bound to be boarded by people wanting to migrate to a better place, killed a boy and then repaired a decrepit wall in the hostile village. For these three action even Moses make his protests known.

Finally Khidir said to Moses "This shall be separation between me and you; now I will inform you of the significance of that with which you could not have patience."

It turned out that many acts which seem to be evil, malicious or somber, actually are merciful. The boat was sunk to rescue the would be passengers from falling into the hands of a tyrant King. As for the boy, if he was let to live he will end up in Hell and drag his parent as well with him (as the boy die at young age then the boy will go to heaven instead). Upon his death God will replace the boy with one better in purity, affection and obedience. As for the restored wall, Khidir explained that underneath the wall was a treasure belonging to two helpless orphans whose father was a righteous man. As God's envoy, Khidir restored the wall so that when the wall becomes weak again and collapses, the orphans will be older and stronger and will take the treasure that belongs to them.

We human being have this normal tendency to love things that was created (or sort of) by us. The best example is of course our own parents, who for reasons not explainable by science would love us no matter what and no matter how we love them less. It rather mind boggling to think that mom and dad only contributed an egg and a swimming sperm and still they love us to death. Of course occasionally our dad have to slap us and mom have to deliver a spank but these act of ‘cruelty’ and  ‘child abuse’ (from our point of view when we were 5) are meant to prevent worse thing from happening to us.

Similarly, God created each and every cells, atom and quarks in our body and God love us much more than our parent could ever love us. Like the slapping and the spanking by mom and dad, there were things happening to us that may looked cruel or unfair and yet we must maintain our belief that these things happens for a reason.

As we venturing into the future which might seems bleak, just remember that “there is no harm coming from God”, OK?

20 comments:

  1. as salam AfterDark,

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    1. Konsep yang saya ingin sampaikan di dalam artikel kali ini memang complicated so memang panjanglah..

      Terima kasih kerana berkongsi ilmu disini. Ya memang sedekah banyak sungguh manfaatnya. Alhamdulillah saya sendiri dan dapat 'pulangan' yang menguntungkan hasil 'pelaburan' saya setiap bulan.

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    2. Dikisahkan dalam sebuah hadis yang diriwayatkan oleh Tarmizi & Ahmad :

      Tatkala Allah Ta'ala menciptakan bumi, maka bumipun bergetar. Lalu Allah menciptakan gunung dengan kekuatan yang telah diberikan kepadanya, ternyata bumi pun terdiam. Para malaikat kehairanan dengan penciptaan gunung tersebut.

      Kemudian mereka bertanya "Ya Rabbi, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih kuat daripada gunung?"

      Allah menjawab, "Ada, iaitu besi"

      Para malaikat bertanya lagi "Ya Rabbi, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih kuat daripada besi?"

      Allah yang Maha Suci menjawab, "Ada, iaitu api."

      Para malaikat kembali bertanya "Ya Rabbi, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih kuat daripada api?"

      Allah yang Maha Agung menjawab, "Ada, iaitu air."

      Para malaikatpun bertanya kembali "Ya Rabbi, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih kuat daripada air ?"

      Allah yang Maha Tinggi dan Maha Sempurna menjawab, "Ada, iaitu angin."

      Akhirnya para malaikat pun bertanya lagi "Ya Allah, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih dahsyat dari itu semua?"

      Allah yang Maha Gagah dan Maha Dahsyat kehebatannya menjawab,

      "Ada, iaitu amal anak Adam yang mengeluarkan sedekah dengan tangan kanannya sementara tangan kirinya tidak mengetahuinya."

      Ertinya, yang paling hebat, paling kuat dan paling dahsyat sebenarnya adalah orang yang bersedekah dan beramal tetapi tetap mampu menguasai dirinya, sehingga sedekah dan amalan yang dilakukannya bersih, tulus dan ikhlas tanpa ada rasa untuk diketahui oleh orang lain.

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    3. Thank you enrike..

      baru-baru ini di Facebook saya telah 'status'kan perasaan tidak puas hati saya kepada warga Facebook yang selalu guna ayat cliche "kalaupun tak menderma tapi sekurang-kurangnya berdoalah untuk saudara kita yang di dalam kesusahan"

      Maka ramailah warga facebook yang menyangka sekadar berdoa dan bagi 'like' pun dah mencukupi sedangkan mereka lebih dari mampu untuk menderma walau sekadar RM10 ke tabung palestine atau kepada orang miskin.

      Aparaaaaa...

      Sedangkan dizaman moden ini lebih mudah untuk mendapatkan keberkatan bersedekah. Zaman takda internet dulu sesiapa yang ikut hadis nabi kena tengok kiri kanan sebab takut orang lain nampak dia beri sedekah. Atuk saya pernah pergi masjid jam 12 malam sebab nak tak nak orang tau dia masukkan duit dalam tabung masjid.

      Sekarang?

      Sekarang duduk ja kat bilik dan bank-in duit guna online. Takde siapa pun tau kita bersedekah dan dapatlah kita mengelak takbur serta memperolehi keberkatan bersedekah itu.

      Tapi zaman sekarang ni orang kalau beli kredit handpone boleh, sedekah RM10 plak tak mampu. Dia cuma bagi 'like' ja kat facebook.

      Mendukacitakan betul.

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    4. Aku Hensem

      I LIKE!!!!!!

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  2. Salaam Encik Afterdark

    Manusia tidak merasa sakit ketika sakaratul maut?

    ada banyak hadith yang mengatakan sebaliknya. antaranya sabda Nabi Shalallaahu 'alaihis wassalaam yang ketika Baginda Shalallaahu 'alaihis wassalaam dalam keadaan sakarat.

    by the way banyak grammatical error dalam rencana ini

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    1. I'm not an expert in hadith and I'm not going to debate using it here, but Profesor Madya Dr. Musa Fathullah in is book Perjalanan Rabbani did mentioned several opinion from the scholars saying that death is not as painful as some might believe. It depends on whether God is being merciful or not.

      I reckon it would be a good idea to read that book.

      Furthermore I said in my article "Provided that death came to you very swiftly". So there's a caveat there. It might be different with slow death caused by disease or injuries.

      I believe the treatment given by the Grim Reaper Israil to LITTLE CHILDREN is different from treatment given to adults. When it come to adults, there ought to be pain depending on the amount of sin he had committed in his lifetime (regardless how mukmin he was). I believe good person will suffer less than bad person. However when it come to YOUNG CHILDREN, I believe instant death caused them no pain whatsoever.

      The Watchers Group always stick to a notion that God ran the universe literally and in tally with science. If there's yet an explanation to describe a science behind certain events, that merely due to our own lack of knowledge. That being said, in deaths of young children caused by instant death, we believe that the moment their brain stop receiving electrical impulses from their body sensors, then there will be no pain caused biologically. Islam is a religion that tally with science and common sense (provided that we understand the reason behind everything) and to assume that young children also suffers extreme pain at time of their death make no senses.

      However, pain exists not only to the living but also to the dead. Bad people who died will suffer pain in the afterlife almost immediately. Unfortunately our knowledge in science is still rather limited in order to understand how pain can be inflicted to a soul.

      I believe whether death is painful or not is based on mercy given by the Al Mighty. People who died as Syuhada has been known to smile indicating that they feel no pain. Similarly when Khidir is thrown to the fire by Dajjal, he feels no pain as Allah made the fire to cool for him. So it seems there's exception to the case.

      Yes, there's bound to be a lot of grammatical errors here because unlike my Jerejak Novel, I didn't ask my 'proof reader' to correct errors here.

      P/S: This article is based on my personal opinion and I admit I am no expert.

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      Bila disebut kematian, serta merta hati manusia akan dilanda kegerunan. Mengingatkan kematian adalah sesuatu yang menakutkan. Sebab itulah, Rasulullah s.a.w. mengingatkan orang-orang mukmin agar mengingati mati sekurang-kurangnya 20 kali sehari, agar dapat mengendurkan nafsu kenikmatan dunia.

      Bagi masyarakat moden hari ini, media massa menyiarkan berita-berita kematian setiap hari. Kematian akibat bunuh diri dan kemalangan, sering kali terpampang di dada-dada akhbar, membuatkan pembaca menjadi risau dan ngeri.

      Apabila membayangkan kematian yang bakal datang menjemput, jiwa yang segagah mana pun akan jadi kecut. Manusia sehebat mana sekalipun, tidak dapat menolak undangan maut sekiranya ajal sudah dapat menjemput.

      Sering kali manusia menggambarkan bahawa kematian itu akan datang dengan kesakitan. Apatah lagi apabila melihat gambar-gambar mangsa kemalangan yang sering dipaparkan oleh media massa yang begitu mengerikan.

      Tetapi benarkah mati itu sakit? Bagaimana sekiranya ada pendapat yang mengatakan bahawa mati itu tidak menyakitkan. Bagaimana sekiranya kematian itu yang sering digambarkan sebagai kesakitan, sebenarnya adalah satu kenikmatan?

      Bekas pensyarah Pengajian Islam di Universiti Teknologi Malaysia, Profesor Madya Dr. Musa Fathullah melalui bukunya Perjalanan Rabbani, membawakan beberapa pendapat ulama yang diperkuatkan dengan dalil AL Quran yang menyatakan bahawa kematian itu tidak menyakitkan.

      Beliau membawa dalil AL Quran, hadis serta pendapat beberapa orang ulama silam antaranya Hassan bin Ali AL Saqqaf AL Qurasyi, yang mengatakan bahawa kematian itu tidaklah menyakitkan seperti mana yang melekat di pemikiran umat Islam sehingga hari ini.
      Bahkan beliau menyatakan bahawa ada sesetengah hadis popular yang meriwayatkan mengenai sakit mati itu adalah daif dan ada sesetengahnya pula adalah palsu.

      Menurut beliau, hadis-hadis yang menggambarkan kesengsaraan atau azab yang luar biasa sakitnya yang dihadapi oleh orang yang beriman adalah daif, batil dan palsu serta bercanggah dengan firman Allah s.w.t. di dalam AL Quran.

      Dalam surah AL Zumar ayat 42 yang bermaksud :
      “Allah mengambil dan memisahkan satu-satu jiwa dari badannya-jiwa orang yang sampai ajalnya semasa matinya dan jiwa orang tidak mati dalam masa tidurnya ; kemudian Dia menahan jiwa orang yang Dia tetapkan matinya dan melepaskan balik jiwa yang lain (ke badannya) sehingga sampai ajalnya yang ditentukan. Sesungguhnya yang demikian itu mengandungi tanda-tanda yang membuktikan kekuasaan Allah bagi kaum yang berfikir (untuk memahaminya)”

      Menurut pendapat Hasan Bin Ali AL Saqqaf al Qurasyi, melalui kitabnya mengatakan bahawa ayat tersebut menjelaskan bahawa tidur juga adalah satu jenis kematian. Ini bermakna Allah s.w.t. memegang jiwa manusia yang belum mati ketika waktu tidurnya.

      Ini bermakna sekiranya kematian itu kesakitan, maka manusia akan merasakan sakit ketika mahu terlelap kerana tidur itu juga adalah salah satu jenis kematian yang mengandungi kewafatan di dalamnya.

      Menurutnya lagi, sakratul maut adalah sama seperti ketika datangnya mengantuk untuk tidur. Cuma perbezaan antara tidur dan mati ialah ketika orang yang mati, rohnya secara keseluruhan akan berpindah ke alam barzakh.

      Manakala manusia yang tidur pula, rohnya tidak dapat mengingati apa yang dilihatnya ketika tidur kerana rohnya akan dikembalikan semula oleh Allah s.w.t. kepada jasadnya.

      Dalam surah AL Nahl ayat 32, Allah s.w.t. menjelaskan bahawa roh-roh orang yang beriman akan sambut oleh para malaikat dengan ucapan selamat sejahtera. Maksudnya :-

      “Mereka yang diambil nyawanya oleh para malaikat dalam keadaan mereka bersih suci (dari kufur, syirik dan maksiat) sambil para malaikat itu berkata kepada mereka, Selamat sejahtera kepadamu ; masuklah ke dalam Syurga disebabkan amal baik yang telah kamu kerjakan,”

      Sumber Al Islam
      Penulis : Wan Mohd Hafiz Wan Hamzah

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      Kebanyakan daripada cerita serta nasihat yang disampaikan selama ini mendakwa bahawa kematian itu mengundangkan sakit yang amat sangat dan menurut beberapa hadis, umpama sakitnya mati itu seperti dipenggal leher dengan pedang sebanyak seribu kali.

      Bagaimanapun kesemua hadis-hadis tersebut adalah daif, batil dan tidak boleh digunakan sebagai hujah. Ini memandangkan riwayat daripada hadis-hadis tersebut bercanggah dengan AL Quran bahkan turut bercanggah dengan hadis Rasulullah s.a.w. yang diriwayatkan oleh Muslim daripada Abu Hurairah yang bermaksud :

      “Dan jadikanlah mati itu sebagai kerehatan bagiku daripada segala keburukan”

      Hassan Bin Ali Al Saqqaf di dalam kitabnya membawa sebanyak 14 hadis yang di kategori sebagai hadis yang tidak sahih. Sebahagiannya adalah hadis-hadis daif, batil dan ada yang palsu yang dikutip daripada kitab-kitab lama dan cerita-cerita yang mempunyai unsur Israeliyat.
      Antara hadis-hadis tersebut ialah :-

      “Kematian yang paling ringan seperti tumbuh-tumbuhan berduri yang ada di dalam bulu (wool). Apakah tumbuh-tumbuhan itu boleh dibawa keluar dari bulu (wool) tersebut tanpa membawa bersamanya sebarang bulu (wool)?”

      Menurut Al Hafiz Al Iraqi dalam takhrij Ihya Ulum al Din mengatakan bahawa hadis tersebut adalah hadis mursal (daif) dan di dalam kitab Zidayat al Jami’ al Saghir mengatakan bahawa ia sangat daif. Manakala Al Subky pula dalam kitab Tabaqat al Sayfi’yah mengatakan bahawa beliau tidak menjumpai sanad bagi hadis tersebut.

      Antara lain hadis yang dianggap palsu bermaksud :

      “Sekurang-kurangnya tarikan maut adalah seperti seratus kali dipenggal dengan pedang”
      Hadis yang popular di kalangan umat Islam ini juga menurut Al Iraqi dalam takhrij al Ihya adalah hadis yang daif serta tidak dapat digunakan sebagai hujah.

      Manakala sebuah lagi hadis yang membawa maksud :
      “Maut (yakni sakitnya) sebagai penebus dosa bagi setiap Muslim”

      Hadis ini termasuk salah satu hadis palsu yang dimuatkan dalam kitab AL Mawdu’at(hadis-hadis palsu) yang dikarang oleh Ibn Jawzi dan turut di senaraikan di dalam kita Al La’aali al Masnu’ah fi Al Ahadist al Mawdu’ah.

      Hadis-hadis tersebut adalah di antara beberapa hadis yang dikategorikan sebagai hadis daif dan palsu. Hassan al Saqqaf menjelaskan bahawa sakratulmaut tidak bermaksud azab atau kesakitan. Sakratulmaut menurutnya ialah tersingkapnya alam barzakh bagi roh sebelum ia berpisah daripada jasadnya.

      Ini berdasarkan firman Allah s.w.t. dalam surah Qaaf ayat 22 yang bermaksud :-

      “Maka Kami singkapkan daripadamu tutup yang menutupimu sehingga penglihatanmu pada hari itu menjadi tajam,”

      Al Sakrat berasal daripada perkataan al sukr, yang membawa makna keadaan yang mendatang kepada manusia berkenaan dengan akalnya, sama ada hilang atau lemah akalnya. Al sukr bukanlah sama maksudnya dengan al alam (perasaan sakit) dan ini dipersetujui oleh semua pihak.

      Maksud al sakran pula ialah keadaan seseorang yang telah hilang perasaannya.
      Al Sakrat menurutnya adalah keadaan yang tidak sedarkan diri yang disaksikan oleh sebahagian orang yang menghadapi mati. Tetapi ia tidak berlaku terhadap semua orang. Ini disebabkan cara kematian itu yang berbeza seperti mati dalam tidur, mati mengejut, mati akibat letupan dan sebagainya.

      Dalam surah Qaaf ayat 19 yang bermaksud :

      “Dan datanglah sakrat al maut dengan sebenar-benarnya. Itulah yang kamu sentiasa lari daripadanya,”

      Dijelaskannya maksud ayat tersebut ialah apakah seseorang itu termasuk dalam golongan yang bahagia atau termasuk dalam golongan yang celaka. Khabar gembira atau duka ini akan disampaikan oleh para malaikat kepada setiap hamba Allah s.w.t. yang sedang menghadapi kematian.

      Sekiranya insan itu seorang mukmin yang beriman dan beramal soleh, maka malaikat akan memberitakan rahmat serta ampunan daripada Allah s.w.t. untuk mereka. Dalam surah al Fajr ayat 27 hingga 30, Allah s.w.t. berfirman yang bermaksud :

      “Wahai jiwa yang tenang, kembalilah kepada Tuhanmu dengan hati yang puas lagi diredai, maka masuklah ke dalam jemaah hamba-hamba-Ku dan masuklah ke dalam Syurga-Ku”

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    4. Anonymous, Thank you so much for sharing this with the rest of us :)

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    Manakala bagi orang-orang kafir serta golongan yang mendustakan ayat Allah s.w.t., maka para malaikat akan memukul serta menyeksa mereka. Ini berdasarkan firman Allah s.w.t. dalam surah al Anfal ayat 50-51 yang bermaksud :

    “Kalaulah engkau melihat ketika para malaikat mencabut nyawa orang-orang yang kafir sambil memukul muka dan belakang mereka dan berkata : Rasakan olehmu seksa neraka yang membakar. Yang demikian itu disebabkan oleh perbuatan tanganmu sendiri. Sesungguhnya Allah sekali-kali tidak menzalimi hamba-Nya”

    Begitu juga dengan firman Allah s.w.t. dalam surah Muhammad ayat 27 yang bermaksud :-

    “Maka bagaimanakah (keadaan mereka) apabila para malaikat mencabut nyawa mereka sambil memukul muka dan belakang mereka. Yang demikian itu adalah dengan sebab mereka mengikuti apa yang menimbulkan kemurkaan Allah dan (dengan sebab) mereka membenci (apa yang menimbulkan) keredaan-Nya. Oleh sebab itu Allah menghapuskan (pahala) segala amalan mereka.”

    Menurutnya lagi, terdapat sebahagian hadis mengenai sakratul maut yang diriwayatkan dalam kitab seperti Imam Tarmizi, Imam Bukhari, Muslim dan Ahmad yang dikategorikan dalam golongan hadis-hadis daif.

    Hassan al Saqqaf juga mengingatkan umat Islam agar berpegang kepada penjelasan al Quran mengenai keadaan orang-orang mukmin dan kafir dalam permasalahan ini. Dan jangan sekali-kali berpegang kepada hadis-hadis daif, batil apatah lagi yang palsu.

    Berdasarkan dalil yang tersebut, gambaran yang mengerikan mengenai maut dan kesakitan yang dikatakan sangat luar biasa ketika menghadapi maut oleh orang-orang beriman, baik ketika menghadapinya dan selepasnya, ternyata membunuh roh atau semangat jihad.

    Bahkan keyakinan bahawa maut itu menyakitkan telah berjaya menyuburkan perasaan takut mati sekali gus menumbuhkan benih-benih cinta kepada dunia di dalam hati-hati orang yang beriman.

    Sedangkan para sahabat dahulu terkenal sebagai manusia yang mencintai mati lebih daripada kehidupan di dunia. Ini disebabkan mati itu adalah sebagai pintu atau jambatan untuk mereka merasakan kenikmatan berehat daripada segala kesengsaraan dan dosa ketika di dunia.

    Apa yang lebih penting lagi ialah orang-orang yang beriman dapat merealisasikan impian terbesar mereka, iaitu bertemu dengan Allah Azzawajalla serta berhimpun dengan orang-orang yang beriman, soleh serta para sahabat dan Rasulullah s.a.w. yang telah mendahului mereka.

    Dan ternyata, golongan yang mencintai mati lebih daripada kehidupan dunia seperti mana teladan yang ditunjukkan oleh para Rasul serta sahabat dulu, akhirnya membuatkan mereka mendapat kurniaan Allah dengan memberikan sepertiga kekuasaan dunia dalam genggaman orang-orang mukmin satu ketika dulu.

    Sumber Al Islam
    Penulis : Wan Mohd Hafiz Wan Hamzah

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    1. Anonymous, Thank you so much for sharing this with the rest of us :)

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  4. Encik Kowloon, sy adalah ibu kepada anak kecil prempuan yg tlah meninggal a year ago sbb masalah jantung. Sy x tau sgt pasal agama islam anda semua sbb sy non-muslim. Tp adakah encik rasa anak sy menderita masa matinya? Sir afterdrak, I like to think that like u said my baby suffers nothing and is now in a better place. That Jannah place you mentioned, do you think my baby girl will be accepted there? (Janet)

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    1. Ms Janet

      I am no religious scholar, but it is accepted by people in the know that should a child under the accountable age die he or she will not suffer in the in the afterlife as the burden of shariah has not befallen on the child.

      I believe death is painful wether the dead display a smile on his or her face or not. If I find the relevant hadith I will post them here.

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  5. No worries madam, your baby girl earn her place in heaven like the rest of young children who died early regardless whether their parents were satanist, jews, christian, buddhist etc. I'm not sure if you have an excellent command in Malay but here's a hadith for your reference:-

    Sesungguhnya mereka (budak-budak kafir) dalam syurga dan ini berdasarkan hadis Shahih Bukhari no.6640 dari Samuroh bin Jundub r.a.h.u. Sebuah hadis yang panjang diantaranya Nabi bersabda:

    “dan adapun lelaki yang tinggi di Raudhah (taman syurga) adalah Nabi Ibrahim, dan adapun anak-anak ataupun wildan(budak-budak) yang ada disekelilingnya adalah setiap budak yang mati di atas fitrah. Lalu sebahagian orang Islam bertanya ‘Ya Rasulullah, adakah ianya termasuk dalam kanak-kanak orang kafir? Lalu Rasulullah saw menjawab, termasuk anak-anak yang kafir.’ ”

    (Shahih Bukhari No.6640)

    p/s: hopefully other readers can spare a little bit time to translate this hadith in full to English for this lady.

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  6. I just lost my baby son Amru Fateh and coming from that experience I concur with your article.

    1. Watching your child suffers from illness is worst then seing him go to meet his great Creator, Allah. Although it is such a sad experience but it is consolable with the knowledge that he has gone to a much better place. When you watch your baby suffer, you feel like crushing your head againts the wall. It is not so consolable!

    2. Loosing child at young age is not worst than having a child who grows up to be a person who deviates from the teachings of Allah. Immediately after I read your article I call upon my two small daughters to remind them to grow up as good muslims. Amru is already safe I told them. We are still not. There are still so many challenges, please remember that everything revolving us is about Allah. The elder acts as if she understand what I'm conveying to her, the younger ones looked blurry. She has not recuperate from fever and I'm not helping by telling her things that are not so much understandble by her. Oh how I worry for them, they will grow up in a such testing time. Ya Allah please save them, please save all of us Ya Allah. Let us all return to You in a good condition.

    3. The are a few who actually said tahniah to us when we lost Amru. Yeah I know it may sound weird to say tahniah to someone who looses a small baby, but as what you written here, if we really go deeper into it, what happened to us is actually something of a good thing for both us as parents and for Amru himself. Amru is safe from all this turbulance, Allah saved him. Congrats Amru! For us his parents, the experience that was given to us by Allah from having and loosing Amru was a much needed soul purifying endeavor. Also Amru will act as an intercessory for us his parents at judgement day. I cannot say congrats to ourselves yet, there so much of continued jihad to be done by us in order for us to enter paradise with Amru. I will wish ourselves congrats when/if we are there. Please Ya Allah let us be reunited again with Amru in Your glorious paradise.

    For me there is musibah/harm but we as muslims must take everything a musibah or a a great gift from Allah all so positively hence equals to TIADA MUSIBAH DI DALAM ISLAM/NO HARM FROM GOD.

    I wish your friend well. Hope she will soon realizes that Allah has done great to her and that so many blessing from Allah come in unexpected manner, at times coming in a rather harsh and cruel ways. Maybe you should let her read your article to help her see?

    Yet again another good one from you. Thank you.

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    1. Puan, I'm so thankful that you have decided to share your experience with the rest of us. I am also very much impressed on how you deal with your grief. I've read your facebook status and I know you pray very hard to see Amru again in the afterlife and I believe you will. You're one strong loving mother and I'm sure you'll do your best to protect your family.

      The concept of 'No Harm From God' is one of which I hope you can promote in your scriptwriting ventures. It's crucial for the masses to understand God's love and how the universe work in order to prevent many Muslims from succumbing to the the whispers of the devil and the lie that will be spread by Dajjal. Like you, I also have two very young daughters and I'm very worry of what may lay ahead. Even in our country, parents seems still unaware how dangerous the idea of LBGT and pluralism are to their children. I mean, what's the point of parents seeing their children becoming rich or powerfull in this world if in the end they'll end up screaming in hell?

      Wan Azizah ought to re-think her priorities. Having a Prime Minister husband is meaningless if in the end her daughter too are being dragged into the fire.

      For the rest of us, let's pray and triple our efforts in order to ensure that even if the Illuminati 'dominoes' falls in this coutry, at least it will fall somewhere else instead of falling on our head.

      Unfortunately I can't let people who knows me to read my article (or know that I'm the writer). But that friend of mine is okay even without my help. Her son came to her in her dream one day and she's been okay ever since that.

      Only my wife knows my AfterDark alter ego and she's full aware about this concept. About a year ago she was driving to pick our daughter from school when my youngest daughter (my wife brought along my youngest 2 years old daughter because there's no one else at home) throw her 'botol susu' to my wife's face. It hurts of course (and hilarious too) and she had to slow down so that she can scream while slapping my daughter's thigh. The incident slow them down by mere 3 seconds. But a minute later the Proton Iswara in front of her got hit by Isuzu Invader who just exited from a junction. Until now I'm still grateful for that bottle throwing incident that led to the three seconds delay.

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  7. as salam AfterDark,

    saya nak tanya soalan cepu-mas...

    bgmn pula dgn pasangan yg masih belum dikurniakan anak setelah bertahun2 berusaha pelbagai cara utk mendapatkan zuriat??

    kita lihat dlm kontek belum berzuriat sbg satu keadaan yg "not so fortunate".

    ada pasangan memilih utk mengambil anak angkat ttp ada juga yg tidak mahu mengambil anak angkat dgn alasan2 tersendiri.

    camna nak kaitkan 'no harm from God' kepada pasangan2 ini??

    sekurang2nya ibu-bapa yg kehilangan anak - mereka ada zuriat yg menanti dipintu syurga...namun pasangan yg tiada zuriat selalu saja dipandang serong oleh masyarakat - apakah pula hikmah disebaliknya??

    mohon pencerahan....terima kasih!!

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    1. Alamak! Dah sampai ke persoalan pasangan tak ada anak plak. Hmmm.. Sebagai peguam saya memang dah kerap sangat mendengar soalan cepu emas "kenapa Allah tak berikan kami anak" ni. Maklumlah memang ramai pasangan yang menyangka peguam boleh tolong dengar-dengarkan kalau ada mana-mana gadis termengandung luar nikah yang nak berikan anak mereka kepada pasangan sebegini (yang mana ada kebenarannya juga, tapi bukan selalu berlaku. Kalau ada pun selalunya anak pelacur dan sesetengah suami ni ego terlalu tinggi tak nak terima anak pelacur).

      Anyway Wangsa, saya bukan tak boleh bagi pendapat tapi isu sebegini tak sesuai dijawab secara ringkas. Saya sendiri setiap kali berdepan dengan pasangan sebegini selalunya terpaksa menghabiskan masa 2-3 jam untuk beri penjelasan (yang datang selalunya isteri saja datang, suami jarang datang). So ini kena tulis satu artikel lengkap ni.

      Konsep 'Tiada Musibah Dalam Islam' ini sebenarnya berasal dari frasa "Yang Baik Semua Dari Allah, Yang Buruk Semua Dari Kita (Manusia)" so ini bermaksud Allah mendatangkan pilihan yang terbaik kepada manusia tetapi sekiranya berlaku Musibah juga itu adalah kerana Manusia itu sendiri yang berdegil memilih yang buruk. InsyaAllah sekiranya manusia menyedari perkara ini dan membuang pilihan yang buruk maka Allah akan memberi yang terbaik kepada manusia itu.

      So boleh saya jelaskan di artikel lain tak?

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    2. jadi saya ni dah trigger tajuk artikel AfterDark yang seterusnya ke..?? hehe

      bagus juga perjelaskan isu ni dlm satu artikel lengkap

      melihat 'childless' dr sudut pandangan yg berbeza2

      mungkin dlm kontek benar2 mendoakan dan berharap agar Tuhan menjaga keselamatan anak2 kerana tahu dan faham bahawa zuriat itu adalah suatu rezeki serta suatu amanah - tidak semua org memilikinya

      mungkin juga sebenarnya medan bg pasangan
      'childless' ini adalah anak2 yatim yg memang perlukan kasih-sayang ibu-ayah

      mungkin juga sbg kesedaran kepada pasangan yg kehilangan anak bhw ada org2 yg Tuhan tidak rezekikan langsung anak sendiri - anak hanyalah pinjaman semata2 - bukan pun hak milik mutlak ibu-bapa - tetapi sesungguhnya anak2 wajib menghormati ibu-bapa

      yup...buat satu artikel lengkap supaya mungkin dr situ timbul kesedaran kepada pasangan yg berzuriat agar betul2 mendidik anak2 mereka mengikut kehendak Tuhan - supaya mereka pula akan tahu rasa hati org2 yg tidak direzekikan zuriat - bukannya hendak memandang serong saja

      segalanya berkemungkinan

      tapi taklah pula bermaksud pasangan 'childless' ini boleh happy2 saja sebab tak perlu risau akan 1001 ancaman fitnah akhir zaman keatas anak2

      so kita tunggu topik ni pd artikel akan datang...!!

      nasihat berikut adalah sgt signifikan:

      ~Allah mendatangkan pilihan yang terbaik kepada manusia tetapi sekiranya berlaku Musibah juga itu adalah kerana Manusia itu sendiri yang berdegil memilih yang buruk

      ~InsyaAllah sekiranya manusia menyedari perkara ini dan membuang pilihan yang buruk maka Allah akan memberi yang terbaik kepada manusia itu

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